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Make Play a Part of Learning, Healing and Resilience

February 4, 2026

Make Play a Part of Learning, Healing and Resilience

Play isn’t extra—it’s essential. In this article, Melissa Labossiere shares why play is critical for learning, healing, and resilience, drawing on child welfare research and real classroom examples that can be used at school and at home.

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I was thrilled when the AFT offered a chance to attend the Kempe “Call to Action to Change Child Welfare” conference again this year. I left last year’s conference with an abundance of information and resources. The Kempe Center conference is unique—attendees are from all over the world and include educators, parents, social workers, family advocates and employees from state agencies. As an educator with more than 30 years of experience in the field, this is not typical professional learning. The knowledge from all participants who share the common goal of supporting children and families is a tremendous learning opportunity.

Kempe’s conference includes many sessions which acknowledge that long-standing practices for child protection rarely achieve their intended effects and often harm families; sessions that name, analyze and explore harms help me deepen my commitment to mandated support.

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Each session also provided me with information, research and resources that I could share back in my local PTA 930 in Pawtucket, R.I. 

  • For example, in a session titled, “A Strategy that Works: Family Resource Centers Around the World,” we heard, “It takes a village to raise a child and a community to keep them safe,”emphasizing that child protection is a community responsibility, not just a government agency.
  • As another example, in a session called, “Relatively Speaking: Family and Culture Are the Enduring Relationships and Connections for Children,” I heard, “The purpose of a restorative conversation is not to win the argument. It is to understand each other better, so that we can work together more effectively.” This underlined two important ideas: First, that addressing maltreatment cannot be accomplished by vilifying caregivers or trying to “win” against them. Second, that collaboration grounded in earnest listening is the more effective way to restore families to balance and better circumstances. 

The conference is a space for sharing what actually works to promote safety and well-being in families, however complex their challenges. I was especially delighted with a session called “Play Changes the Brain: Healing and Resilience for Families,” in which the presenter emphasized, “Neuroplasticity = Hope!” As an AFT national trainer on student trauma, I am passionate about sharing trauma-informed practices through professional learning in my school district because the ripple effect of this content impacts educators, students, families and community. The session spoke to the importance of play: Even 15 minutes of play each day can have an impact on child development. It further made me think how often play is now reduced or even eliminated in many of our schools. Why? We know that play:

  • Boosts a child’s health and development.
  • Reduces stress and improves social and emotional resilience.
  • Creates positive memories for both parent and child.
  • Builds partnerships with families and promotes engagement.
  • Encourages parental empathy and nurturing care.
  • Boosts parental confidence and ease with parenting.

Play is a crucial part of learning for children and families. It teaches problem-solving, creativity, teamwork, negotiation, empathy, managing feelings, and fine and gross motor skills, to name a few. I started to wonder: "Our students need more and more support in these skills; is this linked to the reduction of play in schools?

The session also highlighted that play can sometimes be challenging for adults due to societal pressure to be productive, overwhelming responsibilities, and lack of time or energy. Adults often think that play must be complex or big planned events, when in fact it can be singing, storytelling, drawing or exploring household objects like pans or containers in a cupboard.

As educators, we can normalize the adult struggle with play and share our insights on play with families, including ideas of play at different developmental ages. Parents have different strengths and may not have the same knowledge of play as educators. 

Let's share what we know with families to promote play, even for 15 minutes a day. Legislators are increasingly trying to support play with formal policy. As educators, we can make play a part of learning in school and at home. I want to share some examples and resources aimed at helping you be more playful with students, thereby promoting healing and resilience!

One of my favorite things to do with my middle school students was to incorporate play through content. As a Spanish teacher, I incorporated play through cultural crafts and vocabulary activities. For example, students followed directions in Spanish and placed household items in a house replica to assess house and directional vocabulary. After we learned weather vocabulary, students used role play to practice weather forecasting in Spanish. In my classroom, play also looked like brain teasers, “Would you rather … ?” conversations and guessing activities. Sometimes, I showed a partial photo or an enlarged picture and challenged students to work together on what they thought it might be. Further, our play was sometimes physical: During a quick game of “mum ball,” students would sit on their desks (middle schoolers love this) and simply toss around a ball in silence; if the ball was dropped or you talked, you were out (only the mum of the ball was to be heard) 🙂. We would play until we had two participants remaining. This was a quick way to have students reset.

These activities included several building blocks of play, including creativity, collaboration, physical and social emotional growth. To help families use the same building blocks and connect with school, I would communicate what we were doing in class, share links to brain teasers and encourage families to be partners in projects or the at-home audience for their students' presentations.

You can find great resources on Share My Lesson to promote play at all stages—for school settings or to send home. Here are some of my favorites:

  • The “Power Play” game for older students encourages participants to think about governance and persuasion.
Melissa Labossiere

About the Author

Melissa Labossiere has 20 years of experience as a Spanish teacher in Pawtucket, Rhode Island. For the past 12 years, she has been serving as the Talent Development Coordinator for Pawtucket Public Schools, as well as a national facilitator for AFT professional learning on trauma-informed practices and English Language Learners.

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Melissa Labossiere
My name is Melissa Labossiere, I am the Talent Development Specialist for the Pawtucket School Department in Pawtucket, RI.  I support new hires through mentoring, professional development and teacher evaluation.  I love providing Professional Development!  I have had the opportunity to be trained... See More
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